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3 Things We Can Learn from any Conversation

Harrison Wendland
5 min readJul 10, 2019

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Mentors are great. People to learn from are great. It’s awesome to meet new people. But, what if we don’t know what to talk about? I’m going to share 3 things I usually learn from a conversation as well as the typical questions I ask.

John Maxwell once said something along the lines of, “I realized that I’m really not that interesting, so I began quoting other people. I have a collection of organized quotes at my desk, and often, I quote God’s word.”

I’d focus again, on the 80/20 rule of communication. Spend 80% of the time talking about the person in the conversation that isn’t you and only 20% talking about yourself.

There’s something to learn from everyone. I totally believe that. I love doing “research” and just listening and learning.

What you learn or what you can learn is going to vary 100% by the direction of the conversation and the focus of it.

The things that are typically learned from people fall into 3 different categories:

1. How they overcame failures

2. What they are passionate about

3. How their mind works

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Harrison Wendland
Harrison Wendland

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