I think that it all correlates though. Your five will be different from theirs but, they are the average of their five closest people while they become one of the five that are closest to us.

Yet, we should hopefully know that if they choose to be that close to us, and we choose to be so close to them that they are one of the five closest people, that they are choosing friends wisely.

Otherwise, what does that say about our ability to choose who gets to be close to us?